Heart, head and hands

Today, we talk about a popular persuasive communication framework, often called the Heart, Head and Hands model.

​This framework is used to structure conversations or arguments to convince people by appealing to three different levels:

Appealing to the Heart first is often recommended because emotion is what opens a person up to listening and caring. Logic alone rarely motivates action.

  • 1. Heart (Start with Connection): Share a personal story, appeal to a shared value, or describe the emotional impact of the issue. You must make them feel something about the topic so they are motivated to engage with the facts.
    • Example: "I see firsthand how this problem affects our most dedicated customers, and it deeply concerns me."
  • 2. Head (Provide the Rationale): Once you have their emotional attention, you present the logical arguments, data, and evidence. The facts give credibility and a sound justification for the feeling you've created.
    • Example: "Our data shows a 25% drop in customer retention directly tied to this issue, which translates to a projected loss of $50,000 this quarter."
  • 3. Hands (Call to Action): Now that they care (Heart) and understand (Head), you provide clear, specific steps for what they need to do (Hands).
    • Example: "Therefore, our immediate next step is to form a cross-departmental task force by Tuesday to implement the new process."

In summary, the Heart, Head, and Hands model is a structure for persuasive communication: start with the Heart (emotion) to make them care, follow with the Head (logic) to make them understand, and finish with the Hands (action) to tell them what to do.